This one is a beautifully written tumblr post by brawltogethernow.

“This conflict makes Harry’s life unbearable. It kills Harry’s best friend and his dad and then it takes him down too before he’s 30, and he sees it coming the entire time. So anyway the triumph here is that Harry, with fierce deliberation, loves Peter anyway.”

is such a lovely description of the Peter/Harry relationship and what makes it so important.